When Words Arent Enough

There comes a point in every relationship, no matter how in love you are with someone, there’s going to be some kind of strain. Maybe someone doesn’t feel like their being listened to, or maybe there’s not enough affection. Eventually every relationship is going to hit a speed bump. There are several important aspects to healthy relationships. The first one I believe is communication. Communication doesn’t always have to be verbal speaking The eyes are the key to your soul. There are many times that two people can convey an unspoken language simply by using their eyes. The way a person looks at another can have very strong emotional effects. When a person looks at their mate with an unbridled desire, the other will receive the emotion mentally. The same holds true to negative or angry energy, be careful what vibes you send to your other half. Physical touch is also another mode of non-verbal communication. This doesn’t mean a simple hug; Dig deeper to the emotional side, a back rub, or more personal and sensual rub down is an excellent way to communicate feelings and desires. Close body contact when unexpected can reignite a smoldering spark. For example, when your significant other was doing the dishes, or watching television, when was the last time you wrapped your arms around them first, or engaged in a snuggle session on the couch. Close physical contact with a loving attitude releases natural feel good endorphins. Written communication, close to spoken but in another form is usually received willingly. Remember the love letters that were once shared when the romance was new? Writing a letter and expressing your value of the other person will help reunite the love flow. Make sure you include the things you love and admire about them, the things you miss and the things that you look forwards to in your future. Meeting the physical needs of a partner expresses an unselfish attitude. Maybe a person isn’t in the mood for an erotic encounter; this doesn’t mean that you should ignore the wants of your partner. There are many ways to meet the sexual needs of your partner without having sex. Take the time and get to know your partners body and find what different triggers will help them in their time of need. Showing them that you are more than happy to help them with their needs before yours will help deepen a relationship.